Human nature is hardwired to gravitate toward the "keep out" sign. In psychology, this is often called —the urge to protect our freedom when we feel it’s being restricted. When a person or an opportunity is labeled "forbidden," it gains an artificial luster.
Every human, at some point, reaches for something they shouldn't. It is part of the messy, beautiful process of learning where our personal boundaries lie. The Growth That Follows Losing A Forbidden Flower
Unlike the loss of something socially sanctioned, losing a forbidden flower is a "disenfranchised grief"—a sorrow that feels like it has no place to go because the world never knew you held the flower in the first place. The Allure of the Forbidden Human nature is hardwired to gravitate toward the
Healing from the loss of a forbidden flower requires a shift in perspective. You must validate your own experience since the outside world cannot. Every human, at some point, reaches for something